Commonly, the eft process of working the negative cycle, is discussed in terms of the goal of creating more attachment contact for couples. Seldom is the eft process written about as a powerful method to grow differentiation/individuation in marriage.
About Orin Borders, Ph.D.
Orin Borders, Ph.D, a psychologist in private practice with a long standing interest in the Marriage-Of-Opposites, is the originator on this site.
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