When interacting within the marriage-of-opposites, each in the relationship is generally in an interacting calibration process with the other typically in relation to a variable sense of anxiety/threat. The core-styled typically calibrates outward… how much more do I need to raise the intensity/volume? The outer-styled typically calibrates inward… how much more do I need to pull back interaction/engagement?
About Orin Borders, Ph.D.
Orin Borders, Ph.D, a psychologist in private practice with a long standing interest in the Marriage-Of-Opposites, is the originator on this site.